The Art of Asking a Girl Out

. Different Types of Girls

In this chapter I will tell you about the types of girls that you are likely to meet. I will also tell you how you should go about getting to know them better.

Synopsis

- Girls Who Have a Calm Nature

- Girls Who Are Bold

- Girls Who Are Flirty

- Girls Who Are Less Attractive

- Girls Who Are Boring

I will tell you how to recognize the different categories of girls, so you can choose one that is compatible with you and your environment, behavior and habits.

Girls Who Have a Calm Nature

If you are looking for a long-term or possibly a life-time partner to settle down with, you should look for this type of girl.

She will have a serious out-look and approach to life and have little interest in things frivolous. She is a 'one-man woman' and will expect the man to wear the trousers in a relationship. She is likely to be compliant and willing to please. However, she does have standards and habits thatare set in stone and will be almost impossible to change. She will judge you by her standards and expect you to have similar expectations and goals in life.

Girls Who Are Bold

These girls appear to be and are very different from calm girls. However, they have an underlying seriousness when it comes to a love relationship, and they will expect commitment from you.

These girls enjoy flirting. They prefer it when they are the center of your attention.They are very outgoing and fun to be with, but you need to be aware of their invisible boundaries.They will cut you off very quickly if you overstep the mark. Remaining faithful is an essential in a relationship with these girls. They may appear possessive as they can display a need to hangout with you all the time.

Girls Who Are Flirty

You may often come across girls who are flirty, but very shallow. They often jump from one relationship to another, or have several ongoing at the same time. You should never expect more than a short but often exhilarating fling with these girls.

They are usually very attractive and belief it's their right to be admired and pampered by boys.They are often referred to a 'man's woman' because they may not connect

with other females easily. They may always expect you to pay on a date, and you will need to shower them with gifts.

They are usually accused of only being interested in what they can get out of any relationship, so you can expect to be replaced once the first initial excitement of the relationship calms down.They detest boredom and normality.

Girls Who Are Less Attractive

These girls may not have the looks, but they do have awarm and very supportive nature. They can very easily become your life-long best friend, rather than a date.

They believeth at they have nothing to offer in the attraction's stakes and can become very wary with boys, who are attracted to them. They mistrust the intention of boys that offer flowery compliments and make romantic gestures.

They have a mind of their own and expect boys to be more attracted to their mind, than their looks. They put friendship much higher up in the relationships takes than

love. You may need to do thesame and forget about romantic gestures and date.

Girls Who Are Boring

Coming into contact with girls who are boring is not uncommon. That usually means that you have no shared interests, on which to build a relationship.

During your initial contact,the girl may seem fun and outgoing. However, once you've covered all the get to know you bits. You will likely run out of things to talk about. As you have no shared interests or hobbies the relationship will quickly stall.It may be better not to start a relationship in the firstplace.

"Planning to Ask a Girl Out?"

There are several things you need to plan when you aregoing to ask a girl out.This chapter will guide you through the planning.

Synopsis

Reason for Failure

Plan to do Something Exciting

Plan the Logistics of Your Date in Advance

Take it as Read, That You Have to do the Asking

Choosing the Right Moment

Knowing When the Time is Right to ask HerOut.

You are likely to come across some tough situations throughout your life-time. However, perhaps one of the toughest will be getting it right, when you ask a girl out on a date. You are hoping she will say yes straight away. However, you may not always be that lucky and she may say no, or make excuses as to why she cannot go out with you.

Here are some tips on how you can get the girl to say yes to your request for a date.

Reason for Failure

If you are a stranger to the girl, you are asking out, the chances are she is more likely to say no. You could be 'Jack the Ripper' for all she knows. Her response will likely be an act of self-preservation that has little to do with you. She will be applying what she has been taught since early by childhood 'not to talk, or go with strangers'

You should not allow a rejection to dent yourself confidence. You need to take things slowly and spend some time as acquaintances, getting to know each other. Once she gets to know and starts to feel comfortable with you, she is much more likely to say yes.

Plan to Do Something Exciting

Choose something fun activities you can do with a group of friends.That gives you the opportunity to invite the girl to join your group as a friend. You then have a non-threatening opportunity to relax and interact so you can get to know each other better.

If you succeed in getting the girl to hang out with you and some friends, you will find it much easier to ask her on a date. She is more likely to say yes, because she has seen that you can be a fun guy.

Be spontaneous, and don't be afraid to show you have a caring side. Show her you are intelligent and can talk about topics other than what's going on at school or at home. Talk about subjects or hobbies that really interest you, and take time to find out what she likes and dislikes.

It is all about natural and free flowing communication and getting to know about each other.

Plan the Logistics of Your Date in Advance

Plan ahead and know what you intend to do on the date. Then when you ask her if she is free that evening, you can tell her what you have planned and ask if that is OK with her. If she has already said she is free that night, she is unlikely to say no. If she sees you are willing to compromise about what you want to do during the date, it will help to win you brownie points.

However, if after saying she is free, she then starts to make excuses why she cannot go on the date with you. You should accept it as a good sign, she is not attracted to you.

Alternatively, if she says, she already has plans forth evening you want to take her out; you can try some charm and gentle persuasion. If she knows you are a fun person to be with, and she is attracted to you, you may get her to change her plans. Or you can ask her what night would be OK with her.

Take it as Read That You Have to do the Asking.

Don't labor under the misapprehension that a girl will ask you out on a date. Contrary to a popular belief, there are only a very small number of girls who will ask you out. If you don't want to miss out, then be prepared to be the one that asks for a date.

Choosing the Right Moment

Making sure you choose the right moment to ask a girl on a date is important. If you rush in and ask her before she has had the chance to get to know you, she will say no. It may take several meetings as friends before you find the right moment. You need to be patient, use your instincts and learn to read the signs she is giving you, and you should know instinctively when she is ready to progress to dating.

Knowing When the Time is Right to Ask Her Out

There are several signs that may indicate that the girl is ready to go out on a date with you. In addition to the way she looks at you and her body language, you may notice a more intimate tone in her conversation with you.

She will show an interest in you, even when you talk aboutsomething boring or are saying very little. You need torely on your instinct and natural ability to know when the time is right to ask her for a date.

."Ideas for Being Romantic"

If you want to ask a girl out on a date, you should approach her with some style and romance. The advice in this chapter will help you to bring out the romantic side of your personality.

Synopsis

- Don't be Afraid to Show your Feminine Side or

Caring Nature

- Believe in Yourself

- Sit Down and Make a List

- Make the First Move

- Communications

- Be There for Her when She Needs You

- Make Sure She Notices You

Having a girl as a friend is one thing; it is the moving on to a romantic relationship that can be the difficult part. Making a smooth transition will be easy if you approach it in the right way. What you say, and the way you behave, when you ask a girl out, can be the key to your success or your failure.

Don't be Afraid to Show your Feminine Side or Caring Nature

If you are really interested in a girl, you need to let her know. That often mean stoning down your 'macho' attitude and behavior and letting her see you have a softer and more caring nature. If you come across as having too much testosterone, you risk frightening or turning the girl off, and she will make excuses not to go out with you.

Many of the male populations are reluctant to admit that they have a feminine side, especially in front of other males. However, the best way to get the girl to go out on a date is to show her you do have a sensitive and caring nature. If you do this, and she continues to turn you down, then you should forget her and find another girl to ask out.

Believe in Yourself

You may not be the most attractive male on the planet, but you may not be the ugliest. You need to be strong in the belief that you do have something to offer a girl. However, you do need to find the right balance between being self-confident or being over-bearing, if you want to be successful in attracting the girl.

If like most males starting out on the dating game, you think you don't have a romantic bone in your body, you may be surprised. Following a few simple steps can introduce you to your romantic side.

Sit Down and Make a List

If you are not good at remembering things, you can write them down in a list. Girls are well impressed if you remember their birthday, or special occasions such as anniversaries, without having to be reminded. The minimum you should do is send her a card, but you will gain alot more brownie points if you send flowers, chocolates or take her out for a nice meal to celebrate.

You can also use your list to make a note of her likes and dislikes such as does she have a favorite perfume, what is her favorite color and so on? It will save you a whole lot of grief if you choose something she really likes as a gift for those special occasions.

Make the First Move

Knowing when your relationship with a girl is ready to move on to the next stage can be tricky. As many girls will be reluctant to take the initiative, it is up to you to make the first move. If you over-step the mark, by being too passionate too quickly, you can destroy the relationship. You need to start off by saying goodbye with a wave or a casual kiss on the cheek. You can hold hands while walking, or while sitting in the cinema. The more you get to know her the easier you will find it is to read the signs. She will let you know when she is ready to progress the relationship.

Communication

Communication plays a very important part in any relationship. It is an excellent tool that provides the opportunity for the couple to find out what makes each other tick. The conversations should be natural and should be geared as much to listen and learning, as they are about talking. Initially, the girl may appear to be shy or unwilling to talk about herself, talking about interests or hobbies you have in common will help her to relax.

You can try to draw her out by asking questions. However, you should take care that you don't make her feel like she is being interrogated.

Be Therefore Her When She Needs You

If your girl is upset for any reason, or just feels unwell, you need to bring out your caring side and be thereforher. You may not be able to do anything to cure a physical ailment, but you can provide emotional support. Just by being there and listening shows that you really care and that can help to improve here motional state.

Make Sure She Notices You

There is little point in you wasting your time and energy putting on a show for a girl, is she doesn't even know you are there. You need to make sure your actions involve something she is interested in and ask her to get involved or to give you her opinion on what you intend doing. Unfortunately

for some,that does mean you need to talk to her and get to know her first, before trying to impress.